A Day in the Dominican: Our Dominican Wedding

I always wanted to get married in my parents' backyard in Avon, MN. When we were denied the VISA for Joselo to travel to MN, we had to find another plan. I was sooooooo excited that my family was all able to come for the wedding.

My parents arrived about a week before the wedding. We worked hard preparing for the wedding, moving beds, pillows, and other household items from where I lived to the house Joselo and I would live in together. We had to get a lot of these things done before the rest of the family arrived, so they all had a place to sleep and we could all be together in the same house.

Each day we worked hard pretty much all day. My parents learned quickly about some of the challenges of living and working in the Dominican Republic. Crazy things happen here that just don't happen in the US-- things that regularly slow you down or cause your plans to change. Things like the electricity going out all over town, running out of water, everyone being limited by transportation and a very laid-back culture where nothing seems to be very urgent. Like the Americans we are, we fought through the challenges, found a way to complete the task and tried to accomplish as much as possibly could!! Wow.

My brother and sisters, grandfather, niece and aunt and uncle arrived a few days after my parents. The first thing my sisters got to do was try on their bridesmaids dresses, and then they along with my mother attended a Dominican bachellorette party. What an introduction they had to the Dominican Republic!!

Some of the leaders I work with from the ministry planned a few activities and my sisters planned a few things as well.

This was a game my sisters planned that ivolved rolling dice and taking turns trying to unwrap a prize that was covered in duct paper while wearing oven mits. My sisters had played this game before in the U.S. and had lots of fun. In the Dominican Republic, we had to ditch the oven mits after a while because it was impossible to get at the duct tape. Maybe it was the humidity that made it extra sticky.

Before we even got to the game, the first part and the majority of the party consisted of advice from other women on marriage but more specifically it seemed on intimacy within marriage. As I said before, it was quite the introduction for my sisters to the Dominican Republic. Claire and I tried to translate as much as we could, but there were definitely things lost in translation and in all the laughter. What an experience for all of us!

The day of the wedding, we all got ready at my old apartment. My mom, sisters, niece and the bridesmaids.

The wedding was supposed to start at 4:30pm. We ended up waiting for quite a while at my apartment. We had only one vehicle and lots of people to transport to the church. I know I made a phonecall to a friend back in MN at was already 4:30pm. I actually don't know what time the weddings started, but it was certainly after 5:30pm!

Clara, Belkis and Venisa.

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When JOselo got to church, he had to leave again to run and try to download the wedding processional. The person who had told us he would take care of it, didn't show up.

He still had some time to greet people and take pictures with his nephews before the rest of us arrived!

A Dominican tradition is to have ribbon across the aisle. The guests all fill in down the sides, so the only people walking down the center are the wedding party and the bride and groom.

Our nephew Ivan, and nieces Kily and Jashlyn and cousin Alana.

Jashlyn cutting the ribbon.

Alana carrying the Bible.

Kiley Jo as flower girl.

Ivan as ring bearer.

Another special part to our wedding was the way in which the wedding party entered the church.

The guy walked behind the gal, carrying a flower. When the gal got to the front, she walked in a circle, so everyone could admire her. Then, he presented her with the flower and gave her a twirl. They bowed and curtsied and separated, waiting in the aisle for the bride and groom to enter.